This book is a classic masterpiece on how to deal with interpersonal relationships.nThere are a series of guidelines leading us to a more harmonious and positive atmosphere regardless of our business, workplace, or even marriage.nIt illustrates a large amount of vivid examples and stories to make those golden rules clear.nId love to make a list of some principles to share:n1. Find out goodpoints of a person and dont judge or condemn.n2. Arouse others want by being sympathetic with them and appealing to their nobler desires.n3. Be genuinely interested in otherpeople concerning their accomplishments, hobbies, happy family to show your sincere complimentsn4. Be a good listener to let other people talk themselves out and know the art of listening by honest praise and appreciation.n5. Dare to admit your mistakes and it can sometimes break the ice and get a credit for you.n6. Be friendly and courteous. Smile often and it can be heard on the phone.nBesides, Im overwhelmed with excitement when reading the anecdotes.nWhat impresses me most is a boy radiates shining smile although he is disabled. Hence happiness comes from inner states and how much you appreciate what you have possessed.nIn addition, as a boy gives a soft kiss to his father, it occurs to the father, who is always criticizing his son, maybe he has given his son too much hard time by complaining and condemning him. On our daily basis, I suppose we are apt to lose our temper and demand more of others, especially our beloved relatives. Perhaps we are supposed to reflect on ourselves frequently.nTo sum up, Ive developed a good habit of reading English books andIm fond of its authentic and wonderful expressions and sentences. Im fully convinced that one day Ill thank for what Im sticking to do today.n

Finally I finished this book, five-star recomended it, really interesting and practical. There are a large sum of examples that vividly elaborate the meaning of his opinions.Conclusions are as follows:

1.fundamental techniques in handling people. Dont complain and be sincere, arouse others, eager want.

2.six ways make people like you.Show respect to others and interest in others, small tips like remebering others name.

3.win people your way of thinking.Admit your own mistakes and make them talk much.

4.make the other person happy about doing the things you suggest.Let the other person save face.

5.seven rules for making your home life happier.Still respect your sprouse even if you were married for dozens of years.Give some space to each other, and dont nag.

Many scenes listed in the examples are quite similar with the ones I once encountered. Confused am I as before, undoubtedly it gave a shock that things can be done this way. I learn a lot in deed.Having a sense of talking with others doesnt mean you are good at speaking, only if you master the skills of speaking can you achieve your goal in your career. Dont underestimate the importance of speaking properly. Dont take everything for granted, be thankful, be respectful, be humble, dont just focus on what you like, and yourself into others shoes, the real success combines the benefits of each other. Do notttttttt always complain and reflect yourself first.